Wishing peace on this Veteran’s Day to all of you brilliant, courageous Souls that have served our country. Thank you for your love of home, freedom and community.
Your service is honored especially so today, and/but you deserve to be reminded every single day that what you signed up for and gave a period of your life to is deeply, broadly unique. It etches though the complexities of who you are as a human being. How the experience impacted you and how it shapes and contributes to the way you perceive and experience life continues for one’s lifetime.
Civilian life is never really civilian life for you all. And, understandably some deeply struggle with this.
Know that you are loved by so many, including countless people that you have never even met. If you don’t know me personally, know that I am one of them.
If you are struggling with anything in your life, know that the keys (meaning external resources and personal practices that contribute to your healing) to feeling more ease and peace absolutely exist around you. And, you deserve to find them. It requires you to adjust your gaze, truly look for them and remain steadfast in trying different ones until you find the unique combination of keys that work for you. I call it creating your toolbox.
You will find the keys meant for you, and you will know when you’ve found them. Want to know what to look for? The keys meant for you will quickly bring clarity and knowing, cause ease/calm within your body and mind, and will actually allow for the life around you to THRIVE. The “right” keys for you will do all of that. Don’t be led astray by the keys that do only 1 or 2 of these affects. Booze, sex, drugs, and non-life enhancing companionship (both friends and significant others) are all prime examples of false keys.
The keys that work for another are not necessarily your keys, but they can certainly inspire you to try different things out in your quest to claiming your whole, radiant self. If you can apply that same capacity of commitment and determination that I know exists within you to growing your sense of self compassion, self love, and knowing of your worthiness… you will change your world.
If you are in need support, look for your keys and then practice what brings you true relief on repeat. If what used to work no longer does, it means your toolbox is ready to be refreshed. Find some new keys.
Please say yes to your healing and advocate for your life by reaching out whenever you’re in need of finding balance and support. If you need resources or someone to talk with, reach out to me.
You are so worthy of wholeness, peace, and a life that brings you joy. Love to you, always.
Kate